My wonderful hubby got me Pink concert tickets for my birthday yesterday!!!
Not bragging, just wanted to share my excitement.
My wonderful hubby got me Pink concert tickets for my birthday yesterday!!!
Not bragging, just wanted to share my excitement.
so my "bethalite" sister calls me last night for a chat (now i must digress slightly and say that conversations with my sister are few and far between - we have very little to say to each other and any calls to each other are merely out of duty) .
after all the small talk, she tells me that she was doing stocktake in the tuckshop for a change instead of the usual housekeeping job that she is meant to do.
i ask her why and she tells me that all the dept's within bethal who keep a supply of products have to do a stocktake in preparation for the big courtcase on friday.
I'm from South Africa. Helped to lay out the gardens at bethel in my teenage years! I will try and get some info.
over the past two months she has been emailing me jokes and stories that no jw would ever read.
i ran into her this weekend and she was talking about what she was going to do on her birthday today.
her language around me is also lightly "salted".
I really hope that she does fade!! Maybe the lack of love shown for her husband has something to do with it. Keep us updated it's great to have good news on this forum!
i have been battling an incurable illness and will be able to post less and less.
i will post my email, and any help you cna asend my way will be appreciated.
there is treatment but no cure and no cancer yet.
Blondie, I will keep you in my prayers. Thank you for all your encouraging posts. Warm and sunny ((hug)) from South Africa.
i don't know whether to laugh or cry.. a friend lent me coc yesterday and i stayed up most of the night reading it.
it took me 13 hours and i skipped the meeting today to keep reading, i couldn't bear to put it down.. i am shocked but not surprised at how closely ray's thinking mirrors my own in some ways.
the part that hit me hardest was.... "conviction, it has no meaning or validity unless it is individual, personal.
I wish I could get my JW family to read CoC. It gets easier to live with. At least you are finding out the truth, not many JW are brave enough to question.
i just came across this on the official watchtover web site www.watchtower.org/ .
quote.
jehovah's witnesses spend more than a billion hours annually preaching the good news of god's kingdom.
Welcome Tank.
I doubt JW's have Angelic direction.
i am puzzled about two key factors.
one is the fact that the victims agreed to settle out of court, and two, they agreed to a gag order.
those two key factors there, tells me something as i am sure it will tell you something as well.
I wont say what "it" was telling ME, but I find it all interesting to say the least
Why start a post and then say nothing? If you have an opinion I would love to hear what it is.
Many victims of sexual abuse do not want their names splashed across every newspaper in town. I can understand why victims would agree to a gag order.
dear mom and dad,
so you want to here from me and to know how i really feel on certain issues which is understandable.
i mentioned before that i always felt like the black sheep, like something was wrong with me.
My heart really goes out to you. I think your letter is heartfelt and your love for your parents shines through every word.
ok - i've placed myself in a make or break situation.
i don't post a lot so you may not be familiar with me, but feel free to read my initial post on my situation.
a little has changed - i've now not turned in a service report the last two months (june and july) - first time in 25+ years, it feels great!
All the best with sharing this info with your wife. Reasure her of your love as finding out that the organization you hve trusted for so many years is devestating as I'm sure you know! I would speak to her about the pedeophile problem in the org. As a woman who wants to have kids I'm sure she would want to do everything in her power to protect her child. Maybe getting a copy of Barbara Anderson's new cd would be very helpful. Don't overwhelm her with too much info. Pick a few subjects that you know she will respond to. Don't show anger or bitterness towards the borg as that may scare her.
we are so beyond happy and excited, it's a lifelong dream of his to be a cop, and another big step into our new lives..
whoopee!
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Congratulations!!! So great to hear positive stories like this. Life beyond the borg.